Don’t Fast-forward Through Life

Worry can cause us to miss out on the blessings and joy of life. I often say to students at the school, where I am a principal, “Don’t wish your life away.” Students are so anxious to get on with their lives, to get the party started. My question is, “Do you really want to skip right through all of the significant events of your life?”  Instead, slow down and enjoy them. It is often true that we don’t appreciate things and people until after they are gone. Don’t fast-forward through life — It only makes you tired.

This Is the Day

This idea of being present is throughout the Bible. “This is the day that the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it” (Psalm 118:24). Also, some of our greatest thinkers have captured the idea.  Emily Dickinson said, “Forever is composed of nows.”  Emily Wharton said, “Set wide the window. Let me drink the day.”  And, Robin Williams made the Latin phrase “Carpe Diem” or “Seize the Day” famous. 

We need to practice being present and work on it daily.  Remind your children; rushing through dinner won’t get you to dessert any faster. Remind each other; wishing away the work week won’t make the weekend come sooner. Fast-forwarding through life only makes us tired and unable to find the joy in everyday things and activities. 

Don’t fast-forward through life. We can find joy where you are by focusing on being present.

Also, see Be Present.

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