Change Is Tough

Growing requires action. This is true for spiritual growth as well. It is not just about hearing and forgetting. It is about… change.

Most people are uncomfortable with change. 

So, how have you changed lately? What have you done that was difficult? Yes, difficult is the key word, because change is tough. It is often not pleasant. You have to push yourself to do it. It goes against your nature. Most people are uncomfortable with change. 

Model It

Let me give you some examples. Did you say, I love you, to someone for whom it was difficult? Did you provide ten dollars, your last ten dollars, even when you were not sure they deserved it? You know people think that I am rich, because I’m always giving away money. I’m not wealthy, only in love. My father modeled love for me. So, maybe it is easier for me, but you can do it and you will receive great satisfaction afterwards. 

Here is another example. Did you go the extra mile? “Sure it is out of my way, but I can bring it to you.” “Yes, I had planned to go to the store, but I can do that later.” Did you do something that was hard today? How about yesterday? 

Probably, the best example of a changed life is faithfulness. Faithfulness means you can be counted on. We are not wired to be faithful. It is not in our human nature. We lose interest fast. You only need to think about all of the failed New Year’s resolutions for proof. We make a commitment and do it once or twice. Then, we lose interest and are off doing something that is “more enjoyable.” If you are a Christian, you made a commitment. The tough question is are you faithful to that commitment? Can you be counted on, good weather or bad, feeling good or not, even when it is not convenient?

Change and Succeed

I can say as a former employer that faithful workers, those that can be counted on are the most valuable. They get the best assignments. They get promotions. If you can be counted on to get it done, you will be successful. 

This is true in the kingdom of God as well. I can confidently make the following statement, God loves faithfulness. In the Parable of the Bags of Gold, Jesus links faithfulness to the invitation to “Enter into the joy of your Lord.” Do you want that invitation? Then, be faithful. Even in the little things. Show up, set up the sound system, sing in the choir, teach the children, greet people at the door. There is lots to be done in the kingdom of God. Show that you are the one to get it done.

Change is not easy, but required for growth. Make the effort and you will find that it is doable.  Make the choice to be healthier… happier… more like Jesus.

“Well done, good and faithful servant; you have been faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.”

Matthew 25:23, NKJV

Prayer

Father, allow us to model faithfulness to our children. Help us to teach them to approach each task as though they were doing it onto you. I know their faithfulness will please you and lead to success in life. Amen.

Copyright © 2023 Chuck Locklear

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